Female narcissists and sociopaths often act in covert and harmful ways, especially toward other women they feel threatened by. These behaviors reveal their lack of empathy and urgent need to dominate.

First, they engage in victim-shaming and support male abusers to stay in their favor. They may defend abusive men, blame victims, and steal attention from women who challenge them. Their attitude shows contempt for victims of serious harm, like domestic violence or rape. This behavior is linked to common “signs of” narcissism, such as a lack of empathy and enabling harmful actions.

Second, female narcissists use relational aggression, fueled by envy, to harm women they see as competitors. This includes bullying tactics like rumors, covert put-downs, and shaming. For example, a narcissistic mother might belittle her daughter’s appearance, or a jealous friend might shame another woman’s choices to keep the spotlight. They may disguise insults as concern but really aim to break the confidence of women who stand out.

Third, these women often target younger or more vulnerable women, intensifying their bullying as they age. This is common in narcissistic mothers who see their daughters as threats. The jealousy can cause them to undermine young women’s growth instead of supporting it. Their attacks also reach beyond family, affecting coworkers, friends, or strangers who shine in any area of life.

If you face these toxic behaviors, remember it’s not your fault. Female narcissists attack those who threaten their fragile egos. Don’t let their envy dim your shine. Instead, distance yourself from them and find support among women who lift you up. Their hostility reflects their issues, not your worth.

For more on the signs of narcissistic behaviors and how to protect yourself, check resources that help identify these traits and provide ways to cope. Strengthen connections with people who encourage your confidence rather than tear it down.